A great weekend comes to a close...

... and I am exhausted. Happy, but exhausted. Much loved an appreciated family came into town this weekend, and in typical "me" style I planned menus and cooked up a storm. They left satisfied, so I guess I did my "job." I really didn't push myself too hard - the menu left itself open to socializing as well as working. And, lets be real here, I love making a fuss for people in the kitchen. I made tomato soup and panini on Friday night, pizza on the grill Saturday (Love that FL winter weather), and for breakfast this morning I made waffles and scrambled eggs.

Although we didn't have this today, it would have been a perfect addition to a guest brunch. Especially this time of year, people like to eat healthy. This is easily accomplished by eating fresh (versus processed). Today, we piled fresh, halved strawberries on top of our waffles - but a side of fruit salad would have been just as apropos.

I'm sorry that this one is short. We have had one HECK of a week over here, and the old blogging energy is a little low today. Next week is finals, but hopefully I'll be able to sneak in another post before the week's out. That is, unless, we have another unexpected drama pop up early.

Berry-Pom fruit salad

Blackberries (or any sort of berry, really)
"clementine" orange segments (readily available during winter)
banana
Pomegranates

Dressing: lemonade (enough to coat fruit), touch of honey (sweeten to desired taste and calorie level), and a couple of pinches of garam masala. Mix well, then pour over fruit. The Pomegranate idea came from a middle-eastern family that I used to tutor for, as did the garam masala. It adds an interesting complexity and depth to an otherwise predictable fruit salad!

It doesn't hurt that it's pretty too.

When Life Hands you Lemons, make some kickin'...

Life around these parts has been a little hairy lately. I have my regular job, which seems to take up monumental amounts of time. By the end of the year, I've always managed to efficiently whittle down the hours I spend working. This year I've not yet hit my stride - and find myself working until 5 PM nearly every evening, bringing home hours of work to do on the weekend. I have some of the highest regard for my former teachers, now knowing that they must have given up their own family time grading my papers and assignments. I feel bad for ever turning in anything mediocre.

I've also picked up a tutoring gig - which has been phenomenal. They're a couple of bright, friendly, advanced middle school students that have been an absolute joy to teach. While I love my job and the challenges involved with working with struggling students, I never hear the words "wow, that's the coolest thing I've ever seen" in regards to a math problem. I get that with these kids. Even better is the fact that they are an Islamic family, from Pakistan, and currently celebrating Ramadan. I get Pakistani food every Monday and Wednesday evening (I am there when they break their fast), and I am thoroughly enjoying the education. It's a blend of Thai, Mexican, and the expected Middle Eastern flavors. One unique thing I've learned, that I completely intend on trying out at some point, is adding Garam Masala to fruit salad. It's really wonderful! I've also now been exposed to Samosas, mostly made with a blend of kosher meat. I will be trying these at some point, likely with a vegetarian blend.

On top of all of this, my husband officiates school-aged football. High school on Thursdays and Fridays, little guy on Saturdays. So, with all of the above, we're all home Tuesday nights, the occasional Thursday night, Saturday night, and Sunday afternoon. In that time, we have all the chores expected and I like to squeeze in a little family time too.

What I haven't had time for, clearly, is food blogging. Part of this is my own perfection complex. I have a hard time doing anything "half way." Even if I have a tasty recipe, I don't want to post it without the perfect picture. This new photograzing interest has not helped this. Plus, I enjoy getting myself involved in all of the other food blogs out there. However, when I started this, I just wanted an outlet to discuss my views on homemaking and cooking. Lately, it's become more about doing whatever is necessary to get recognition for the blog. I've discovered that's a full time job. The problem is, as a full time working mommy, I simply don't have the time for that kind of blog. That is, unless, I want to have one at the expense of my family. Clearly not an option. Neither is it worth it for me to give up other things I love - searching for deals, scrap booking, and my friends - for this one area that I also love. I need to strike a balance.

So, it's time to ratchet things back and give myself a break. I'll still post - don't get me wrong...but it's going to become about quality rather than quantity. 2-3 posts per week will be my goal (instead of the 5 - 7 I had been shooting for). Pictures will be great, but not necessary. Readers loved and appreciated, but not chased down.

Maybe then I'll have time to actually ENJOY the food that I cook - and not just photograph it and eat it cold. Kidding....sort of.

Thanks for reading this little cathartic confession. Glad you're here, hope to continue to have you here, even if I don't post every day!

Curried Quinoa Pilaf

It has been a crazy week in our home. The storms pushed us out of school just two days after we started, which means Monday I had to start all over again. This week has been a real bear. Which means I've had limited time in the kitchen, and even more limited time to document and blog. In fact, I made another quinoa dish this week that I just couldn't get a photo of. So now I will have to re-create and document that later.

Today's dish is a quick, easy, skillet meal that you can make as big or small as you want. The first time I made it, it was good. The second time, I added honey which made it MUCH better, and the third time I traded the lemon for lime. The end result? Something truly tasty that can be made from leftovers in minutes.

Curried Quinoa Pilaf

1 teaspoon extra virgin olive oil
1 small onion (or 1/2 medium), chopped
1 clove of garlic, minced
1/2 teaspoon garam marsala
1/2 teaspoon yellow curry powder
The juice of 1/2 of a lime
1/4 cup diced tomatoes (fresh or canned)
1/3 cup cooked chickpeas
1/4 cup milk
1 Tablespoon nuts (I used pine, but walnuts, peanuts, and pecans would all be good)
1 Teaspoon honey
1 to 1 1/2 cup Quinoa

Heat olive oil in pan over medium to medium high eat.

Add onions and garlic, saute for a moment, until they start to turn translucent.

Add spices and lime. Continue to cook for a minute.

Add tomatoes, cook until the tomatoes start to juice. Then add the chickpeas, and cook for several minutes more.

Once everything has started to release moisture, add the milk. Stir and blend until the milk has been well combined and the sauce starts to turn a little thick.

Add the quinoa, heat. Then add the pine nuts and honey, stir well and saute for another couple of minutes.

Plate and eat. Top with fresh cilantro, if you desire.

This would be just as good with rice, if that is what you had on hand. Since rice is a bit more bland, you might want to reduce the amount of garam marsala slightly.

Save your marriage hummus.

At least, that's what it was called on a web board that I was on recently.

This is yet another "find" from another source. I made it once, improved upon it for my tastes, and made it "mine." This brings me to an important cooking point.

Aside from baking, where the yeast-sugar-salt proportions must be just so, cooking is not an exact science. You cannot create a "one size fits all" recipe. Cooking is about being one with your food, tasting, loving, thriving. It's about knowing that something "isn't right" to your tastes - and the one spice, flavor, additive that will make it so.

I am not an exact cook - which is why I will never write a cook book. I don't like feeling confined by measurements and exacts. A truly wonderful cook only uses a recipe as a guide - the rest is up to the imagination.

Hummus:

1 lb dried garbanzo beans
1 tsp paprika
1 tsp chili powder
1 tablespoon cumin
1 small onion, diced
approximately 4 garlic cloves, diced
two cans of plain green olives
4 tablespoons tahini
4 tablespoons lemon juice
olive oil

Start by soaking the beans all night or day. Wash and toss the ickies.

When ready to cook, place beans in a dutch oven, with around a gallon of water.

Bring to a boil, cook for 1.5-2.5 hours. You want a bean that can be mashed with a little effort, blended creamy easily, but isn't falling apart. When done, pour into a colander and drain.

In same dutch oven, put 4 tablespoons of olive oil. Heat over medium heat. Add onions and garlic. Cook for a few minutes. Depending on your affinity for garlic (I love to eat them whole and roasted) - you can increase/decrease the amount.

Add paprika, chili powder, and cumin. Cook up for a few more minutes.

Add drained beans. Cook for another two minutes or so. Adjust heat if it gets too hot.

Remove from heat, split between two bowls.

In large food processor, add one bowl of beans and one can of olives. Then add 2 heaping tablespoons of tahini, 2 tablespoons of lemon juice, and blend completely.

Once blended very well, add olive oil to desired consistency. Some like it thicker, some like it thinner.

Place in bowls.

Repeat the blending process with the remainder of the ingredients.

Place in bowls. Hummus can be frozen for later consumption.

And no, this didn't save my marriage (there was nothing to be saved) - but it got your attention, didn't it? It was how it was posted elsewhere on the web, and I stole it.